Laxton, Alicia

Alicia Laxton

Why did you choose to study abroad and how did you select your program?
Before studying abroad, I had never lived anywhere other than North Carolina or been to a place where I did not speak the language. I wanted to gain a new sense of independence and challenge myself to be more social and willing to say yes, in addition to improving my not-so-great Japanese skills. I was drawn to Waseda for practical reasons (the centrality of the university, the liberal arts studies, infrastructure) but also because they had a sizable international population. This meant I could find a familiar community while otherwise immersed in a different culture. 

What did you learn about yourself?
How much I enjoy meeting new people and value being around a diverse group. Prior to going abroad, I was more of a shy homebody. But living in the university dorm, if I was having a rough day or tired of speaking Japanese, I could go to the common room and inevitably find someone to relate to. I met so many people from classes, living in the dorm, and clubs -- Japanese students, Europeans, southeast Asians, other Americans, etc. I gained a more global perspective and can understand why misunderstandings arise across cultural barriers. Working around these differences was extremely fun. 

What is one of your favorite memories from your program?
Towards the end of my program, summer festivals popped up around the city. My favorite of these was centered on a form of traditional dancing called "Bon Odori" in which lead dancers stand on a platform and the audience is invited to follow along. Young and old, Japanese and foreigners, those wearing yukata or not -- everyone is welcome to join in. It was an environment of pure joy. I attended as many as I could; each one had their own spin on the tradition!

What advice do you have for future study abroad students?
Always reach out if you feel confused or lost -- whether it's a simple question like how to mail a package or if you are totally homesick and just need to vent. People are more excited to help than you'd expect. Further, everyone in a study abroad program is there to learn. You have as much to teach other people as they do to you. Also, I scheduled regular calls with my friends, which can help with feelings of isolation. Another important bit – if you’re vegetarian/vegan (or have a specialized diet), it takes some getting used to. At first it seems like there is nothing available to eat, but Tokyo (and Japan in general) have some really great plant-based offerings. Food became the most enjoyed part of my day and I am more than happy to give recommendations!

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